Melissa Lane

Melissa Lane

Female 1817 - 1884  (66 years)


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  • Name Melissa Lane 
    Birth 18 Nov 1817  Montgomery, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 15 Oct 1884 
    Person ID I54787  Stewartsny
    Last Modified 2 Dec 2025 

    Father Gilbert Lane,   b. 9 Dec 1779, Bedminster, Somerset, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 7 Jan 1848, Pulaski, Oswego, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 68 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Mother Eleanor Dunlap,   b. Abt 1782, Canajoharie, Montgomery, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Jun 1866, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 84 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Marriage 2 Dec 1804  Canajoharie, Montgomery, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F5466  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Charles Hartson Cross,   b. 1 Jan 1807   d. 2 Nov 1883 (Age 76 years) 
    Marriage 11 Oct 1842 
    Children 
     1. Martha H. Cross  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     2. Frances Amelia Cross,   b. Abt 1845   d. 4 Jan 1852, Pulaski, Oswego, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 7 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     3. Albert H. Cross,   b. 9 Mar 1847, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Apr 1883 (Age 36 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     4. Gilbert L. Cross,   b. 9 Nov 1850   d. 23 Jan 1890 (Age 39 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     5. Sylvia Lane Cross,   b. Abt 1853, Pulaski, Oswego, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1943 (Age 90 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
    Family ID F18090  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 2 Dec 2025 

  • Notes 
    • Newspaper Obituary - Thursday, October 23, 1884 Pulaski Democrat - Pulaski, New York - In Pulaski, October 16, 1884, Melissa L., relict of Charles H Cross, aged 67 years. The deceased was the third daughter of Gilbert and Eleanor Lane, old residents of this town, and the widow of Charles H. Cross, an old and well-known resident of this village who died November 2, 1883. She died suddenly of heart disease, from which she had suffered for many years. Three children, Gilbert L. Cross, Mrs. Silvia L. Shea and Mattie H. Cross, all residents of this village, survivor. The funeral was held at her late residence on Sunday at 2 o'clock, and the burial service of the office for the church was conducted by the Rector R. Paul of St. James's church. We extract the following tribute to the life of the deceased from a private letter: "She has gone to join the husband and son she loves so dearly, but what a glorious example of domestic love and devotion, of purity and goodness, of generosity and unselfishness and of Christian resignation and fortitude in affliction, she has left to all of us to emulate. Such is the inevitable of this life. Sickness and sorrow, pain and death, we cannot escape here." The floral tributes to her memory, a pillow, cross and crown, were very beautiful.