Arlene M. Lagray

Arlene M. Lagray

Female 1932 - 2023  (91 years)


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  • Name Arlene M. Lagray 
    Birth 16 Oct 1932 
    Gender Female 
    Death 4 Nov 2023 
    Person ID I84155  Stewartsny
    Last Modified 2 Dec 2025 

    Father Arthur La Gray 
    Relationship natural 
    Mother Helen La Rose 
    Relationship natural 
    Family ID F25717  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 William Gordon Nemier,   b. 1932   d. 1944 Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Marriage 25 Jun 1950  Adams, Jefferson, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Gordon Nemier  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     2. Belinda Nemier  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     3. Arlene Nemier  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     4. Randy Nemier  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     5. Wendell Nemier  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
    Family ID F28227  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 2 Dec 2025 

    Family 2 Ernest Edward Fone,   b. 30 Jan 1916, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 21 Aug 1999, Mannsville, Jefferson, New York, United States of America Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 83 years) 
    Marriage 8 Feb 1959  Mannsville, Jefferson, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Tina Fone  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     2. Randy Fone  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     3. Dennis Fone  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     4. Connie Fone,   b. 3 Jun 1964   d. 3 Apr 2012 (Age 47 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
    Family ID F11644  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 2 Dec 2025 

  • Notes 
    • Arlene M. Fone, 91, formerly of Ellisburg
      By Submitted by funeral home
      Published: Nov. 7, 2023 at 3:45 PM EST
      Arlene M. Fone, 91, formerly of Ellis Rd., Town of Ellisburg, and widow of Ernest “Trix” Fone,...
      Arlene M. Fone, 91, formerly of Ellis Rd., Town of Ellisburg, and widow of Ernest “Trix” Fone, passed away Saturday, November 4th, 2023, at the Samaritan Keep Home where she was a resident.(Source: Funeral Home)
      WATERTOWN, New York (WWNY) - Arlene M. Fone, 91, formerly of Ellis Rd., Town of Ellisburg, and widow of Ernest “Trix” Fone, passed away Saturday, November 4th, 2023, at the Samaritan Keep Home where she was a resident.

      Services will be private for the convenience of the family at the Carpenter-Stoodley Funeral Home, Belleville. The burial will be in Ellisburg Cemetery.

      Arlene is survived by her children Gordon (Nancy) Nemier, MA, Arlene “Tina” (Kevin) Shettleton, Carthage, Belinda “Spring” (Wayne) Schroeder, Parksville, NY, Dennis (Rayna) Fone, NC, Randy (Melissa) Fone, Adams, daughter-in-law, Jane Nemier, Adams Center; Stepchildren, Brenda Mullin, Mannsville and Elizabeth (Lester) Berghorn, Tylerville; many grandchildren and great grandchildren; several nieces and nephews.

      She was predeceased by a son, Wendell Nemier, a daughter Connie Manav, a stepson, Ernest Fone, Jr., and a daughter, Anne Fone, who died in infancy. She was also predeceased by her nine brothers and sisters.

      She was born one of ten children in Rensselaer Falls, NY on October 16, 1932, a daughter to Arthur and Helen LaRose LaGray. She married Ernest E. “Trix” Fone February 8th, 1959, in Mannsville. Mr. Fone died August 21st, 1999. A previous marriage to William Gordon Nemier ended in divorce.

      Mrs. Fone worked for several places in the county to include Phinney’s Farm in Mannsville; with Joyce Brown making ceramics, for Fred and Lois Langworthy at the Pierrepont Manor Inn and Ramada Inn, just to name a few.

      Arlene was named “Resident of the Month” at the Samaritan Keep Nursing Home during the month of October 2023. She enjoyed doing ceramics, crossword puzzles, playing cards with family and friends, and watching the New York Yankees. But above all else, she enjoyed spending time with her family.